Consent First
Smart DM filtering, enforced consent violations, and predator detection that actually works.
Radically Inclusive
LGBTQIA+ centered, pronoun respect enforced, and zero tolerance for discrimination.
Your Data, Your Control
Self-hosted servers, no data selling, and privacy controls that actually work.
Why Kink Society Exists
Our Mission
You've found your safer place.
We created this space because consent shouldn't be negotiable, safety features shouldn't cost extra, and your privacy shouldn't be an afterthought.
We enforce boundaries, protect your identity, and put community needs before profit, always. This is the platform we all deserved from the start: one that takes your safety as seriously as you do.
What Makes Us Different
✓ Actually Enforces Consent
Three-strike education system with real consequences for violations.
✓ Smart Safety Technology
AI-powered predator detection that protects without censoring consensual content.
✓ Privacy by Default
Your location is hidden, messages are filtered, and your data is never sold.
✓ Free Safety Features
Protection tools are never paywalled. Your safety isn't a premium feature.
Who We Serve
Kink Society is built for:
- • Experienced practitioners frustrated with outdated platforms
- • Women and femme-presenting people seeking safer spaces
- • LGBTQIA+ community members wanting inclusive platforms where pronouns are respected
- • Newcomers to kink needing educational resources and safe exploration
- • Event organizers and educators building local communities
- • Content creators who own their work and control their privacy
Our Promise
No venture capital. We're community-funded to stay independent.
No data selling. Your information stays yours, always.
No tolerance for predators. We're sex-positive, not predator-positive.
No paywalled safety. Protection features are free for everyone.
Our Approach to Consent & Kink
Supporting Your Consent Framework
Whether you're negotiating DM-based play, organizing events, or coordinating scenes, we support all recognized consent frameworks:
SSC
Safe, Sane, and Consensual - The traditional framework
RACK
Risk-Aware Consensual Kink - Acknowledges inherent risks
PRICK
Personal Responsibility, Informed Consensual Kink
FRIES
Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific
How we facilitate consent:
- • For DM Play: Smart filters and negotiation templates
- • For Events: Vetting tools and consent policy enforcement
- • For Education: Resources on all frameworks without bias
- • For Scenes: Coordination tools and aftercare support
Edge Play, CNC & Controversial Kinks
We facilitate safe exploration and education around all consensual activities:
✅ We Support
- • CNC negotiation & scene planning
- • Edge play safety education
- • Risk profiles & mitigation strategies
- • Event policies for edge play
- • Aftercare resources & support
❌ We Don't Allow
- • Actual non-consent (not CNC)
- • Content involving minors
- • Permanent harm or death
- • Content without proper warnings
- • Non-negotiated exposure
Platform Tools for CNC & Edge Play: Scene negotiation forms, content warnings, event consent policies, educational resources, and community support - all designed to make high-risk activities as safe as possible.
Understanding Risk vs Violation
We distinguish between consent violations and accepted risk outcomes:
Consent Violations
Breaking agreed boundaries → Platform action
Risk Outcomes
Accepted risks that materialized → Education & support
Education First
We provide resources, you make informed decisions
Knowledge is the sexiest safety tool.
🚀 Platform Status
Your kink, your consent, your community • Always